London woman launches full domestic investigation after marriage experts encourage couples to ask more questions, husband insists thirty years of interrogation have already established everything about him
LONDON, ENGLAND – Marriage therapists have urged British couples to rediscover their curiosity about one another, and a 59-year-old woman from Wimbledon has responded by opening a full investigation into who has been leaving the bloody toilet seat up for the past thirty years.
Dawn Pritchard, married to her husband Martin since 1996, welcomed the advice that long-term couples should keep asking questions and taking an interest in each other’s lives. It echoes the first item on a Fox News list of marriage mistakes couples make without realizing: assuming you already know everything about your partner.
“I’ve been asking him questions for thirty years,” Mrs Pritchard said. “Who left the seat up? Who finished the milk and put the empty carton back in the fridge? Who put an empty biscuit packet back in the cupboard, which I’d like to say is a criminal offence in some countries? Where have the scissors gone? Why is there a screwdriver in the butter?”
Her husband says she has mixed up curiosity with a criminal investigation.
“There’s a difference between taking an interest in your husband and running a murder inquiry every time you go in the bathroom,” he said.
Mrs Pritchard disagreed, pointing out that a murder inquiry usually ends with somebody getting charged.
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Relationship specialists believe curiosity keeps intimacy alive, especially in couples who’ve spent decades sharing a home, a mortgage and very different opinions about the thermostat.
The advice follows warnings that spouses often assume they know everything about each other, and that romance can slide into a system of domestic administration. Couples wanting professional help can find couples counselling through Relate, which as far as anyone has established does not cover bathroom disputes.
Mrs Pritchard says she is already intensely curious about her husband.
“I’d love to know what he does in that garage for four hours every Sunday. I’d love to know why a man needs seventeen identical screwdrivers. And I’d really love to know why he can remember every Manchester United result since 1978 and can’t remember where we keep the tea towels. They’ve been in the same drawer since Blair.”
Martin thinks the curiosity has got out of hand.
“Last Thursday she asked what I was thinking. I said nothing. She said nobody thinks nothing. So I told her I was wondering if the mower would start in November. She said that wasn’t a thought, it was a chore. Fair enough, but it’s still what I was thinking.”
Mrs Pritchard believes her husband is hiding a rich emotional life. Martin says his emotional life at present amounts to hoping it doesn’t rain before he’s finished the lawn.
Toilet Seat Mystery Becomes London’s Longest-Running Domestic Investigation
Determined to revive the marriage, Mrs Pritchard has set up a formal inquiry into the bathroom situation.
The file so far includes witness statements, a diagram of the toilet, a spreadsheet of suspicious incidents and a reconstruction carried out last Sunday. Exhibit B is a Post-it note. Nobody will say what Exhibit A is.
Martin has been named as the principal suspect on the grounds that he lives in the house and is male. His defence is that his wife also uses the bathroom, occasionally.
“She says the seat was up at eight o’clock,” he said. “At eight o’clock I was in Tesco. I’ve got the receipt. But apparently if I leave it up earlier in the morning, I’m still responsible for it being up later. That’s not how alibis work.”
Mrs Pritchard thinks that’s a fair reading of the evidence.
“If he’d put it down properly in the first place we wouldn’t be here.”
Martin has pointed out that toilet seats have hinges, and that the hinges are designed to let the seat move in both directions. His wife called this an unnecessarily technical answer to an emotional problem.
The couple called in their plumber, Keith, for an independent assessment. He confirmed that the toilet was working normally. He was then asked if men should put the seat down. He declined to comment, saying his insurance covered plumbing but not divorce.
Marital Curiosity Produces Several Unwelcome Discoveries About Husbands
Counsellors urging couples to rediscover each other have caused difficulties across the capital.
In Kensington, a woman found out that her husband had been running a second bank account with £84 in it, which he described as emergency money for fishing equipment.
“Fishing emergencies,” she said. “I asked him what sort. He said I’d be surprised. I wouldn’t, actually. I’ve seen the boat.”
In Ealing, a woman learned that her husband had never liked their annual holiday in Cornwall and had spent twenty-six years agreeing to go because he assumed she loved it. She then admitted she had only ever suggested Cornwall because she thought he loved it. The couple are now looking at somewhere neither of them wants to go, to keep the tradition going.
And in Chelsea, a woman asked her husband to tell her something surprising about himself. He admitted that he sometimes eats a McDonald’s alone in the car before he comes home for dinner.
She wanted to know why.
“Because it’s peaceful,” he said.
The discussion is ongoing.
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Marriage experts have long urged couples to keep up with each other’s changing tastes, ambitions and personalities. London’s curiosity drive has turned up a separate problem: men who’ve lived in the same house for thirty years can’t find things that have been in the same place for thirty years.
Mrs Pritchard says her husband regularly asks where the mustard is, even though it’s been on the second shelf of the fridge since the last century.
“He stands there with the door open,” she said. “I tell him it’s on the second shelf. He says it isn’t. I walk over, move one jar of mayonnaise, and there it is.”
Martin says that’s a design fault, not a curiosity problem. “It was behind something. If you can’t see it, how are you meant to know it’s there?”
His wife replied that by that logic he couldn’t find anything in the garage either, where Martin can put his hand on a single screw he bought in 2003. Martin called the comparison completely unfair. The garage, he said, has a proper system.
Wife Finally Solves Toilet Seat Mystery, Husband Immediately Wishes She Hadn’t
After three weeks of evidence, Mrs Pritchard announced a breakthrough.
The bathroom reconstruction showed that she had, on occasion, left the seat up herself while cleaning.
Martin took this as proof of his innocence. His wife did not.
“Yes, I lifted it to clean underneath. But if he’d been paying attention to the house he’d have noticed it needed putting down.”
Martin accepted the finding after working out that arguing would mean a discussion of about ninety minutes.
Marriage counsellors have hailed the case as proof that curiosity can lead to important discoveries about a partner. Mrs Pritchard agrees, though she believes the main discovery is that her husband still won’t take responsibility. She has moved on to the question of why he leaves the kitchen cupboards open.
Martin has asked that any future marital curiosity be kept to questions about his childhood, his favourite films or his hopes for retirement.
His wife says she’d be delighted to talk about his retirement. Particularly whether he plans to spend all of it in her kitchen.
Five Humorous Observations About Marital Curiosity and the Toilet Seat
- Asking a man what he’s thinking is like opening the fridge at two in the morning. You know there’s nothing in there. You look anyway. You stand in the light for a bit.
- The toilet seat has two positions. Two! And we’ve built a thirty-year legal system around it, with witnesses, diagrams and a plumber who won’t pick a side. Keith knows. Keith will take it to the grave.
- A man can find a screw he bought in 2003 but not the mustard. His brain is a garage with no kitchen.
- When she says “I’m just curious,” I’m already guilty. That’s not a question, that’s sentencing. I’m not being asked anything, I’m being read the charges in a friendly voice.
- That fella eating a McDonald’s alone in his car isn’t hiding an affair. He’s hiding eleven minutes of quiet and a Filet-O-Fish. It’s the most romantic thing he owns.
Further Reading on Marriage and Curiosity
- Fox News: marriage mistakes couples make without realizing
- Relate: couples counselling
- Relate: relationship help and self-help tools
This article is a satirical treatment of real relationship advice. The London couples, domestic investigations, government initiatives and quoted conversations are humorous creations, not verified news events. In the publication’s traditional editorial mythology, the story represents a collaboration between two sentient beings: the world’s oldest tenured professor and a philosophy major turned dairy farmer. The toilet seat in this story is still up. More London satire is available, plus a guide on how to tell satire from real news for anyone still investigating at home.
SOURCE: Fox News
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