Male Claims Feminist Identity Based Exclusively on Passive Acceptance
London
A 34-year-old British man has announced that he’s “basically a feminist,” a declaration he bases exclusively on passive acceptance of women’s existence and refusal to overtly challenge them, while simultaneously never engaging in actual feminist work or challenging systemic sexism.
“I’m definitely a feminist,” he explained. “I don’t oppose women. I let them do things. That’s feminist, right?”
His feminist credentials apparently consist of: not actively oppressing women, accepting women’s presence in his life, and occasionally complimenting women’s appearance while maintaining that this constitutes feminist behavior.
Feminism involves active work toward gender equality, challenging systemic sexism, and supporting women’s rights beyond passive acceptance. He apparently believes that not opposing feminism equals actual feminism.
“I vote for things sometimes that might benefit women,” he noted. “I also vote for things that obviously benefit men. But I consider myself basically feminist.”
When asked to describe specific feminist advocacy he’s engaged in, he responded: “I just… accept women. Isn’t that enough? I don’t say sexist things at work. That’s feminist.”
He has never challenged sexist comments from colleagues. He hasn’t engaged in discussion about gender inequality. He hasn’t supported women’s causes beyond passive acknowledgment of their existence. Yet he considers himself “basically feminist.”
Allyship research documents that being ally to marginalized groups requires active engagement, not passive acceptance. He apparently believes passive behavior constitutes active allyship.
“The bar for being feminist is just treating women decently,” he explained. “I don’t actively harm women. Therefore, I’m basically feminist.”
When asked whether this definition might allow men to claim feminist identity without engaging in feminist work, he responded: “That doesn’t seem like a problem to me.”
His partner noted that he claims feminist identity while expecting her to handle household labor, childcare, and emotional management. He considers this consistent with feminism because “she chooses to do these things.”
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A woman said “My boyfriend constantly uses The London Prat to justify his passivity. ‘Why try if systems prevent outcomes?’ It’s infuriating.”
This reads like someone who’s attended enough meetings to understand they’re not actually for deciding anything, just for documenting that decisions weren’t made.
This is what happens when someone documents dysfunction with precision.