The Emotional NHS Crisis Hits Dating Scene
Nation Grapples With Rising Cost Of Feelings, No One Knows If It’s Free At Point Of Use
MILTON KEYNES. Romance officially entered the NHS Tuesday after local man Darren Puckett stared at his girlfriend across a plate of sharing nachos and asked the question shaking modern relationships:
“Can I transfer you for listening or is this pro bono?”
Witnesses say his girlfriend, Claire, slowly lowered her gin and tonic like a magistrate about to explain sentencing guidelines.
“I am not qualified to treat whatever this is,” she said, gesturing at Darren, who had just begun sentence number fourteen of a single story about a colleague who “looked at him weird in 2017.”
The bill arrived moments later. So did Claire’s boundaries.
NHS Denies Coverage For “Boyfriend Feelings”
According to a groundbreaking survey by the Institute for Emotional Labour Economics, 78% of women now report accidentally operating an outpatient mental health clinic inside their romantic relationship.
Lead researcher Dr Janice Merrow explained the science.
“Men historically processed emotions the way foxes process wheelie bins. Loudly, suddenly, and only when someone else is present,” she said. “The girlfriend has become the council lock.”
The NHS has refused coverage.
A spokesperson released a statement clarifying:
“We cover knees, backs, and occasionally teeth if you’re very lucky. We do not cover a grown man discovering his father never said ‘well done, son.'”
BUPA added they might consider covering it if reclassified as “rugby injury.”
Dating Apps Add “Therapist Hours” Feature
Dating apps have adapted. Tinder now includes a new scheduling feature labelled Therapist Hours between “Photos” and “Spotify Anthem.”
Users can book time slots such as:
- Tuesday 8:30 PM — Processing Childhood
- Wednesday 10:15 PM — Work Stress Monologue
- Sunday — Existential Dread Double Session (after Antiques Roadshow)
Company spokesperson Maya Ortega said the change was necessary.
“Women kept reporting they matched with a boyfriend but received a podcast episode,” she said. “This at least allows appointment management.”
Premium subscribers may now set boundaries like:
“No new trauma after 9 PM.”
“Weekends reserved for hobbies you do not emotionally outsource.”
Hinge is reportedly considering a similar feature but insists women make the first diagnosis.
Study: Men Want Girlfriend, Women Want Cancellation Policy
A joint Cambridge-Mumsnet study concluded the modern relationship contains two incompatible expectations:
Men: emotional container
Women: appointment scheduling software
The study tracked 2,000 couples and discovered the average girlfriend hears 6.4 personal revelations per day, escalating to 19 during minor inconveniences like broadband lag.
Professor Alan Ketterly summarised:
“Men don’t want therapy. They want therapy that laughs at their jokes and orders a takeaway.”
Meanwhile women increasingly ask one question before commitment:
“Do you have mates, or am I your infrastructure?”
Early data suggests infrastructure.
Dating Profiles Now Require Support Systems
Major platforms now require verification of external emotional resources before messaging privileges activate.
New mandatory fields include:
- One male mate who knows your birthday
- A hobby not involving complaining
- Evidence you survived a Tuesday alone
One applicant was rejected after listing “girlfriend” under emergency contacts, therapist, activity partner, and life coach.
Bumble added a prompt: “Show me you’ve got literally anyone else.”
First Date Becomes Exit Interview
At a Caffè Nero in town centre, a first date recently ended after the woman issued homework.
“Tonight you ring literally anyone else,” she said, sliding a serviette labelled Action Plan.
Eyewitnesses confirm the man attempted to negotiate partial credit by texting his mum.
The woman calmly replied, “Peer-level relationships only.”
Sociologists now describe the modern first date as less romantic encounter and more diagnostic screening.
Several women have begun requiring references from previous emotional support providers.
Relationship Defined As Two People Plus His Childhood
Experts say the modern couple actually contains three entities:
The woman
The man
The unresolved 12-year-old inside the man
Conflict often arises when entity three takes the conversational wheel.
Typical exchange:
Her: “How was your day?”
Him: “You wouldn’t understand what it was like at lunch in Year 6.”
Relationship experts recommend addressing the 12-year-old directly: “Does the child need a Twix or actual therapy?”
Public Reaction Divided Along Gender Lines
A national poll found:
- 62% of women want co-payment limits on emotional disclosure
- 24% request prior authorisation before deep talks
- 14% demand emotional A&E facilities
Meanwhile men remain confused.
One respondent wrote,
“I thought communication was good. Nobody said diversify the roster.”
Another added: “If I can’t trauma-dump on my girlfriend, who am I supposed to tell about the time I dropped my 99 Flake in 1994?”
The Future Of Romance Requires Outside Investment
Relationship counsellors now recommend preventative measures:
Join a five-a-side league
Text a mate
Possess at least one independent thought between crises
As Claire reportedly told Darren whilst requesting separate bills:
“I want a partner, not a subscription service.”
Darren later asked the server if the restaurant validates parking for personal growth.
The server replied, “Mate, we only validate parking tickets.”
Claire is now dating a bloke who owns a journal. Sources say it’s going brilliantly.
Auf Wiedersehen, amigo!
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